Identity is a very important aspect of our personality or
individuality. Our identity is something that we believe we are. It is built,
shaped, developed, and nurtured through knowledge, intelligence, experiences,
environment, behavior, and skills. Each one of us has a distinct identity of
our own that is easily distinguishable from others. In a sense, every one of us
is unique because we talk differently, we think differently; we observe
differently, we learn differently, we view and react to the outer world
differently; however an important thing to note is that our identity is
influenced by various factors such as the environment we live in, the family we
live with, culture we are born and brought up, the society we live in, friends
and people we mingle with, interests and hobbies that we cultivate over time
resulting from association, inheritance or our own preferences and so on.
There are many people who have attained the peak of success
in their respective fields regardless of their family background, their
education, or social status. Identity according to me is built and shaped by a
variety of factors as stated above however personal choices and preferences
have a dominant role to play in our lives that form an integral part of our
identity. A book you choose to read from the shelf, friends you choose, your
favorite movies, songs, the games you like to play, your hobbies and interests
etc are so many things that reveal your inner persona. These elements play an
indispensable role in framing your identity and character.
It is a topic of research to know and understand what
exactly is mainly responsible for creating an identity? According to some
research scholars, our culture lays a crucial role in building our identities.
This statement to a large extent is true as we are constantly exposed to our
culture and society in our everyday lives and thus become a part of it. We tend
to incorporate the values, customs, norms, and life styles in our lives that
our culture allows us to follow. However, there still remains a good volume of
room for making personal choices and preferences in life that makes us distinct
from others. Our identity is not known by our culture or society we live in but
by the distinct identity we carry, likes and dislikes we exhibit, attire we
use, complexion, company, knowledge and attitude we show to the outer
world.
The first sense of our identity is known or felt when we are
in our teens. A best example to understand the concept of identity is a high
school cafeteria wherein teens/students gather for lunch or short leisure and
one can easily spot a popular guy or a girl among the group. It is easy to
identify who is popular, who has many friends, who is reserved and sober and
other fine aspects of a student’s persona just on the basis of observations.
It is important to note that some identities require
peculiar environment while some grow in any environment. As for example, an
Asian student may not easily adjust to the American way of living and may take
time in making friendship, get along with people, mingle with associates etc.
Here, it can be found that cultural differences certainly impact on one’s
identity and may act as a barrier. Therefore, it requires time for a new comer
to adjust to the host culture in order to settle and get going the easy
way.
A culture can be described as a set of principles, beliefs
and customs laid by religious and social beliefs. A culture exerts a strong
influence on people’s life styles, way of thinking and their identities. A
culture to a great extent shapes our way of living, habits, life style, diet,
attire etc. However, despite of such a strong impact of our culture on an
individual’s identity, individuals often tend to make a distinct individuality
of themselves through their peculiarity of thought, actions and way of living.
According to many authors, environmental influences namely the cultural forces
to a great extent impact on one’s behavior, attitude, and way of thinking and
habits that eventually shapes one’s identity. In my opinion, this is a generic
statement as it is the inherent and inner self that dominates and plays a
significant role in making and building a person’s identity. However, this
statement is an exception to the popular belief that environmental influences
are much stronger than the personal preferences.
Influence on Identity
A good example of culture versus the personal influence on
one’s identity is a group of students in a particular grade or class who
exhibit a peculiar behavioral pattern, attitude or qualities. For example,
studying in a similar environment, students show different attributes of
personality that can be easily observed from their obvious behavior in the
class. A student with dominating attitude will tend to command others by his
language, acts and behavior while on the contrary a student who is studious and
sincere in studies show very peculiar behavioral trait that is desirable and
suitable to the academic environment. The former may be popular, less liked and
less favored by the class teacher while the latter is less known but liked and
favored by the class teacher as a studious and obedient student. This is a very
good example of a group that is exposed to same environment, culture and
society but exhibiting difference in their attributes and personality thus
creating a unique identity.
It is very important to keep in mind that our reactions to
external influences vary from person to person and one cannot expect a similar
reaction from two different individuals. Since we all are very different from
one another, our individualities too vary. In order to understand what exactly
causes such differences in identities, it is important to know what identities
are made up of. We are a product of our culture, habits, preferences, inherited
characteristics, social influences and free will. In majority of cases, people
who have attained highest success and given their greatest contribution to
society are those who have always created their identities by themselves. They
are the masters of their preferences, habits and attitude and regard social and
cultural forces as less important. On the other hand, people who are always
bonded with cultural and social forces tend to adhere to the common beliefs and
principles seizing the peculiarity of their identity.
Aspects of Identity
Things such as our names, social security number, our finger
prints, driving license etc serve to identify us among others and by
distinguishing us from other people. However, these are just social norms to
identity one from the rest. Our true identity lies in our persona that includes
features such as, culture, color, race, gender, religion, nationality etc.
These characteristics help in narrowing our search to trace one unique
individual yet there still remain room for dilemma. This is because there are
many individuals with the above mentioned features living in a particular place
or region. In such a situation, how can one trace a specific person on the
basis of these above mentioned features? For example, there may be two or three
individuals who have a common name, color, nationality, gender and living in a
particular place and culture. How can one trace the one who is actually
required for the purpose? In a situation like this one, one would certainly
require some more information about the subject that can differentiate one from
the others. Even if these individuals have every above mentioned characteristic
in common, they still greatly differ from one another in habits, interests,
preferences, voice, attitudes, and other finer characteristics that do not
match or resemble from the rest. Therefore, in order to trace the wanted, we
would have to narrow down our search further focusing on the attributes that
are uncommon, distinct part of their individuality and easily separate them
from others. Identity identifiers such as their date of birth, social security
numbers, finger prints etc is one easy yet effective way to separate one from
millions. Thus, this example proves that identity is a very special phenomenon
that requires special consideration when dealing with it.